Here's how to make a woman see YOU as an alpha male:
1. You have to be willing to lay your ego at risk of getting rejected.
If you learn any one thing to come across like an alpha male, it is this. Guys that are skittish around women because they fear rejection will NEVER be seen as an alpha male, no matter how hard that they try. This is the one element that will really set you apart from the other guys and make it readily apparent that you are a true alpha male. It's not about muscles, because I have met some guys that spend a ton of time in the gym, and yet, when they get around a woman, they act like a wimp and they end up getting passed over.
2. You have to be able to make her feel secure around you in more ways than one.
When I say that you need to make her feel secure, most guys will think about the ability to physically protect her. Well, that is not the only thing that you need to focus on. Especially in today's day and age, it's not nearly as necessary to protect her physically, as it is to protect her social reputation, and her emotions. Being able to let her know that you are not the kind of guy to kiss and tell, and you are not the kind of guy to let her emotions get the best of her will signal that you are a TRUE alpha male.
3. To put her over the top and know that you really are the alpha male she has been searching for, you have to be a guy that is going places.
Look, you don't have to be reaching for your spot on the Forbes 500 list, you don't have to be striving to have the next platinum CD, and you don't have to be vying for the next Hollywood blockbuster to be going places. You just cannot be the guy that sits at home in his apartment playing video games and drinking beers and think that she is going to see you as a true alpha male.
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