The basics of attracting and meeting women begin with being you and not to try to be something or someone else. Some men feel that a woman will be more attracted to them if they have glamorous jobs. or names that even a celebrity would be envious of. For this reason some men will go so far as to manufacture a fictitious job and change their name for a night. Most women can see right through such a ruse. Be yourself. If you are a janitor be proud of it and if you have a name that has a dozen consonants, teach her how to pronounce it and be proud of it.
Women do not enjoy being with men that are indecisive. Don't ask where she would like to go on a date. Tell her you would like to take to... wherever. If she does not like it then don't ask her to decide but do ask her to make a suggestion. There is a difference. If you ask her to decide where to go you are not being decisive, which means you cannot make a decision and you are looking for her to do it for you.
Don't forget that every person is unique which means we all have different personalities. If you are you when you meet a woman she will be more impressed and see you as a truly unique person. If you try to hide your true personality she will see right through you and lose interest.
No matter where you go or what you do, there will be conversation. Do not monopolize the conversation by talking about yourself. Be a good listener and hear what she is talking about and reply with true but subtle feelings. Add to the conversation if you truly can. Above all do not tell her she is wrong or she did the wrong thing. But make suggestions if the situation allows it.
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