You should limit your contact a bit. You don't want to be constantly around the person after you have had a good date with someone. You should talk a little bit but try to leave them wanting more. This doesn't mean that you ignore them but gauge their interest a bit this way.
Talk about seeing the person again but don't set a date yet. This will leave him or her wonder when you will ask for another date and really look forward to it. Talk a few times first and get to know the person.
Leave stories or things to talk about saved for the next time that you go on your date. These are things that you bring up letting the person know that you will talk about them more in depth next time. This will make the person ready for it wanting a little bit more.
Don't do anything stupid on that first date. If you embarrass yourself or your date, your interest will drop quickly. Don't be pushy and don't try to make your date uncomfortable. This is a huge mistake that will make having a second date very difficult.
Try to get more contact information from the person you just took on the date. This might be a cell number, Twitter, instant messaging, email, or whatever you don't really have yet. This sends the message that you really would like to talk more and get to know the person better having a bit easier access. This makes you a bit more interesting since they will feel a bit flattered you want more of them.
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