Finding Your Forever!

Finding Your Forever!

Finding Your Forever!

To date seriously you need to get your objectives straight. Whether you want this to continue into a marriage or a live in or if you both want to have children together. The objectives need to be spoken out to each other so that you both are on the same boat. When you are looking for things to get serious make sure the groundwork is strong.

Be honest to each other from the start so that later things don't get messy. Be open about your expectations and requirements in the relationship. So that you don't disappoint each other. Spend lots of time together so that you can learn everything about each other. Habits, likes, dislikes, etc. That way you can see how compatible you are and you can judge if it will last. Do not give too much importance to the small things, be more concerned about big things like family background, financial standing which will be important to define your future.

On the other hand do not force something to happen when it isn't going right. If you aren't compatible with this person you might always get lucky with someone else. Do not have too much hopes with one person unless you are in that place in that your relationship. There may be things that you overlook or things you feel you can change with time. Do not make that mistake. Make sure you clear any small thing to prevent big problems in the future.