How Does the World See You?

How Does the World See You?

When a person tries to control every situation they have ever been in, they can get used to the idea of others following their directions and doing whatever they say. You are the take charge type of person. You see the world as your playground, literally, and seeing as you make everyone do whatever you want them to do for you, you can also have anything you want. You like things done right the first time and also like to know they will be done on time. You have a tendency to think the only way things will be done right is if you do them.

You want and need things to be your way all the time. You know you have the power and are not afraid to use it. That said, God help the person who disagrees with you because you are not afraid to let them know how upset you are when they do. You are the do all person in a relationship. You are the one who decides where you will go and what you will do.

The problem with this type of person is that most of the “friends” are not really friends. They are people who are afraid to say no to the controlling one. They are friends out of fear. They are only in the picture because they are afraid to leave or say no for fear of upsetting this person. This is the type of person who usually turns into an abuser.