The Controller

The Controller

Being the controlling party of anything can be exhilarating. It can also cause many problems between two people. When one person is a controller and the other is as well, it causes the two to butt heads. If one is a controller and the other is not it can cause a dictatorship between the to. That said, answer the following questions:

• Are you a master time saver?
• Are you a master at making things more efficient?
• Do you overly like competition and winning?
• Do you take statistics and results for anything and everything?
• Do you use those statistics and results to measure something’s worth?
• Are you the first to offer up a solution to a problem?
• Must everyone follow that solution?
• Do you dislike or mistrust people who do not agree with what you say?
• Must you always be right?
• Must you have anything right now?
• Do you make all the decisions?
• Are you impatient?

If you have said yes to any of these questions, then it is quite possible you are a controlling person. This is a difficult type of person to be with or be around. As I can imagine it is difficult to be this type of person, even if you do not realize you are.