In reality, a controller has no idea he is perceived this way however if he did he wouldn’t care. They are impatient, easily irritable and difficult to please-no matter what. They want what they want when they want it and however they want it-NOW. No excuses for any discrepancy with what the controller states or wants. It does not matter what anyone says or does, the controller is always right, no matter how wrong he is proven to be. This is a learned behavior and there is nothing anyone can do about it but the controlling person himself. These traits follow a family for generations. Because it is a learned behavior, the controller cannot be at fault but instead must be understood and gently coerced into counseling. Otherwise he might just wind up sitting in a jail cell one day-or dead.
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